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Terry

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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« Reply #15 on: February 01, 2012, 06:01:50 PM »

Lisa, have you been sleeping any better? Tried deep breathing before laying down at night? It can't hurt and it might just help! Have been thinking of you, dear one.

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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« Reply #16 on: February 03, 2012, 02:44:24 AM »
((((((((((((( TERRY )))))))))))))))))

I did try it and it helps but still waking up through the night. I've been doing the deep breathing through the day at work. It does help and thank you swee one :icon_flower:

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Lisa
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I know I will see you again

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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« Reply #17 on: February 03, 2012, 07:13:42 AM »
Lisa,

I know it feels like it will never end, it will, it just takes alot of time.  someone near and dear to me explained it this way...when you lose a family member it is much different than a spouse, because that was supposed to be "FOREVER", growing old together and living happily ever after, I do beleive that's true, at least for me. Nothing has rocked me as hard as this before.
O,K,, so I agree with the breathing but you may want to try this as well....it is a homeopathic medicine called "GUNA SLEEP", you can find it in a health foods store.  It is very mild, non addictive and without the side effects of sleeping pills, it was given to me by my doctor to try because I was only sleeping two hours a night, it has worked well for me as I didn't want to take anything that would really knock me out.  It was given to my son as well and has worked for him as well.
This is all so exhausting and I wish none of us had to go through it.
xoxox
Rose

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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« Reply #18 on: February 04, 2012, 03:55:56 PM »
Rose,

You are right it feels like there is no ending to this pain.  It was so supposed to be FOREVER, we always talked about growing old, sitting on our rocking chairs.  And it's never going to happen.

Thank you for the information I will have to look for it.

This is one hard and exhausting journey.  I wish also no one had to be here. ugh

Always,

Lisa
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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« Reply #19 on: February 19, 2012, 08:24:55 PM »
 (((((((Lisa))))))

How are you doing?  Have you been sleeping any better yet?

I have had a tough week with it and I was thinking about you...:)

Rose

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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« Reply #20 on: February 22, 2012, 03:06:51 AM »
(((((((((((((((( ROSE )))))))))))))))))))

Aww, thank you for checking on me that is so sweet of you.  Still sleeping the same not any better and I still have the aniexty. 

I am so sorry you aren't sleeping well either ((((((((((( ROSE ))))))))))))

Today is 15 mths and been having really really bad days.

I wish we would all wake up from this nightmare and our normal life was back with your spouses.

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Lisa
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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« Reply #22 on: February 22, 2012, 11:07:35 AM »
(((((((((((((((((((Lisa))))))))))))))

 Wish we could find away to take away this pain, the lonlyness, the aniexty. Sorry you are having these hard days. My heart gos out to you. these days can be so hard even when we knew they are coming. Hang on my friend we can get through this together.

Wishing I had a rewind button for us all.

Jason

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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« Reply #23 on: February 22, 2012, 12:45:34 PM »
(((((Lisa)))))
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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« Reply #24 on: February 22, 2012, 01:59:17 PM »
(((((((((((((((( LISA ))))))))))))))))))

I hope you find peace today xxxxx

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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« Reply #25 on: February 22, 2012, 02:37:54 PM »

Thinking of you, today Lisa, missing Lou so very much.

You have my love and support.

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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« Reply #26 on: February 25, 2012, 05:35:08 AM »
(((((((((((((((((Lisa)))))))))))))))))))))))

Thinking of you and wondering how you are getting on today?

Son xxxx
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Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« Reply #27 on: March 02, 2012, 06:11:57 PM »
(((((( KEVIN )))))))

Thank you my friend so much love and hugs to you.



((((( JASON )))))))

Thank you my friend, and yes would love to have that rewind button.


((((( TERRY )))))

((((( ANGIE )))))

(((( SONYA )))))

(((( PAM ))))

Everyone here is so wonderful !!! Thank you my family.

Sorry I just couldn't get back on with the bad days I was having/still am.  Then I had left for Los Angeles on Sunday and got back today.  I had to go out there for work. I think I slept worse out there and of course there is a 3 hr time difference I had to adjust too.

I see a lot of posts and someone new.  It breaks my heart for all of us and then I come back from L.A. and there is someone new. 

This journey is simply horrible. 

I will write and post to other's tomorrow.

Always,

Lisa 
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I miss you every second of everyday My Love

I know I will see you again