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Terry

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How's everyone doing?
« on: May 05, 2016, 12:31:28 PM »
It's been unusually quiet here on Spouse Loss. I sure hope everyone is doing OK. I think of you all. :love9:

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Terry

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Re: How's everyone doing?
« Reply #1 on: May 17, 2016, 04:18:41 PM »
Not good right now....Im sitting under my beautiful tree in my favorite spot...the swing. No other half....cant feel him at all lately. Life is moving a little to fast then slow....I dont know if I can do this for 20 years!

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« Reply #2 on: May 17, 2016, 04:41:50 PM »
 I should continue to say if it wasnt for this forum, you and understanding people on here I dont know where I'd be. Just when you get going good are sooo positive and can start moving on it's like a freight train comes in and rolls over you...Thank you for just being there! All of you!

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« Reply #3 on: May 18, 2016, 11:22:06 AM »
I should continue to say if it wasnt for this forum, you and understanding people on here I dont know where I'd be. Just when you get going good are sooo positive and can start moving on it's like a freight train comes in and rolls over you...Thank you for just being there! All of you!

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Re: How's everyone doing?
« Reply #4 on: May 19, 2016, 10:53:31 AM »
Sorry I have been away.  Kgragam is right.  When you think you're making progress, wham, a freight train hits you.  At church the other day, we were discussing all types of healing.  I, of course am trying to heal from loss.  Our son passed away in 2003 at 35 years of a heart attack, my wife, Cathy, last October and most recently my daughter-in-law killed herself.  And now ,I'm told I have a tumor on my kidney and I'll need surgery to remove the kidney.  It never rains but it pours.  Sometimes just a sprinkle would be refreshing.  This is a great forum.  I'll try to stay in touch.

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Re: How's everyone doing?
« Reply #5 on: May 25, 2016, 03:47:23 PM »
Thanks for checking in, Wally. My oldest and surviving son also died in 2003. I'm so sorry, Wally.

Please let me know when your surgery is scheduled. You are in my thoughts and prayers. :love9:

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Terry