Darrens sis
I agree this bond is nothing I would wish on anyone, but it helps to be able to share with others who truely understand. Fair, yes that should be taken out of our vocabulary, because anymore nothing seems fair. I am sure Darren helped pick out your husband for you, especially since you have found a wonderful man who is understanding. Mine just doesn't get it. I don't expect him to. I keep it all pretty much to myself.
To bad your ex sis in law has cut you all out. I'm sure there were many things of Darrens you would have loved to have had. Some people just don't think.
You know how I mentioned earlier about how when I am out, and I see people that resemble my bro or sis, I tend to stare and make sure its not them. WEll it happened again tonight. I was at the grocery store and I could have sworn this guy looked just like my brother. I really wanted it to be him, but I know that will never happen. He had the same eyes the same jaw structure, sideburns, and attire. Its just so strange.
enough rambling
take care