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Re: 15.5.-Riki´s angel date (Shelby).
« Reply #15 on: May 16, 2015, 02:48:03 PM »
(((((((Janka and Shelby))))))) :love9:

These dates are so hard on us. You both are such loving and supportive members. :love9:

You have my love and understanding,
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Re: 15.5.-Riki´s angel date (Shelby).
« Reply #16 on: May 16, 2015, 03:32:40 PM »
((((Terry))))

Thank you so much. I appreciate your words. I do the best I can and it's not always the most positive or enlightened. I am feeling a little confused and hurt right now and I know that will change with time. I do know that all pain brings enlightenment or more pain. I have been enlightened and know that I will become more so as I have time to work things through.
Yes this day is hard for me. So many memories of what could have been. I am hoping to find a place where I can include him and still feel happy doing things we loved to do together. I was talking to a friend and she asked why I seem to want to put up an 'alter' for Riki. Am I hanging on when I should be letting go. I don't think so. Yes I think about him a lot. I am working to find that happiness and not let the sadness overrun me when I am happy.

I hope all is well in your world and life. Hugs and love,

Shelby

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Re: 15.5.-Riki´s angel date (Shelby).
« Reply #17 on: May 19, 2015, 09:32:11 PM »
I close this thread I made.

Janka
​I always kiss you from the heart,my endless love,
you know how much I love you,also stars above,
you will always be my dearest and only one,
I can not wait to be with you,my beloved Jan.

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Re: 15.5.-Riki´s angel date (Shelby).
« Reply #18 on: May 19, 2015, 10:36:08 PM »
((((Terry))))

Thank you so much. I appreciate your words. I do the best I can and it's not always the most positive or enlightened. I am feeling a little confused and hurt right now and I know that will change with time. I do know that all pain brings enlightenment or more pain. I have been enlightened and know that I will become more so as I have time to work things through.
Yes this day is hard for me. So many memories of what could have been. I am hoping to find a place where I can include him and still feel happy doing things we loved to do together. I was talking to a friend and she asked why I seem to want to put up an 'alter' for Riki. Am I hanging on when I should be letting go. I don't think so. Yes I think about him a lot. I am working to find that happiness and not let the sadness overrun me when I am happy.

I hope all is well in your world and life. Hugs and love,

Shelby

Hi Shelby - I sure do understand and all we can do is the best we can. We're only human.

This Mother's Day was very difficult for me, more so than the others have been. Grief is complicated.

I'm glad to hear you're incorporating those positive, good memories into your journey as I feel that it surely strengthens us.

Take care and keep posting. It helps...a lot! :love4:

Love & understanding,
Terry

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Re: 15.5.-Riki´s angel date (Shelby).
« Reply #19 on: May 22, 2015, 02:33:10 PM »
We're only human.

I think we all forget that about ourselves and other people.

If I've learned one thing, it's that most people do the best they can with what they've got.

I have a lot more empathy than I used to.

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Re: 15.5.-Riki´s angel date (Shelby).
« Reply #20 on: May 22, 2015, 02:41:07 PM »
I´ll not react to this thread anymore.

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« Last Edit: May 22, 2015, 02:44:19 PM by Janka »
​I always kiss you from the heart,my endless love,
you know how much I love you,also stars above,
you will always be my dearest and only one,
I can not wait to be with you,my beloved Jan.

Janka