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Janka

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Is there anybody else here?
« on: November 06, 2014, 09:21:05 AM »
I feel alone on this board.Is there anybody else here who I can write to,who feels the pain of beloved woman or mans loss I can talk about?

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I can not wait to be with you,my beloved Jan.

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Re: Is there anybody else here?
« Reply #1 on: November 06, 2014, 07:02:23 PM »

Hi Janka! How are you tonight? I'm looking into a chat room for the holidays as some of the members like having a place to go beyond the board where they can share pictures, videos, etc. I also enjoy having the 'One on One contact!' We used to have a year round chat room, notice the button at the top of the board next to calendar and for awhile it sure was busy in there.

I would continue to post and as people come home from work and even on the weekemds you may find a member that wants to share with you.

Sending you a big hug and lots of love, :love4:

((((((((Janka)))))))))

Terry





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Re: Is there anybody else here?
« Reply #2 on: November 07, 2014, 09:07:50 AM »
(((((((Janka)))))))

Probably quiet because of the holidays coming up, which of course makes it so much harder to deal with it all.

I haven't posted much, as for me it seems even more difficult this year more than the others, as I'm sure you understand why.

This site is great for helping to get through some really miserable moments. It does get quiet like this at times, but people are checking it often and are around even if you don't see them actually log in.

The chat room was great when it was working and people were going there, so hopefully that will happen again soon :) And maybe we can post a date and time to get together there :)

Peace and hugs sent your way

((((((((((Janka)))))))))))

« Last Edit: November 07, 2014, 09:42:30 AM by Zylen »

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Re: Is there anybody else here?
« Reply #3 on: November 07, 2014, 09:37:04 AM »
Almost forgot :P

I'm not a poem writer, but with your beautiful poems I found this one written by another that hit me with where I am nowadays...

The sound of her silk skirt has stopped
On the marble pavement the dust grows.
Her empty room is cold and still.
Fallen leaves are piled against the doors.
Longing for that lovely lady
How can I bring my aching heart to rest?




« Last Edit: November 07, 2014, 09:38:49 AM by Zylen »

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« Reply #4 on: November 07, 2014, 10:15:34 AM »
Almost forgot :P

I'm not a poem writer, but with your beautiful poems I found this one written by another that hit me with where I am nowadays...

The sound of her silk skirt has stopped
On the marble pavement the dust grows.
Her empty room is cold and still.
Fallen leaves are piled against the doors.
Longing for that lovely lady
How can I bring my aching heart to rest?


That's beautiful, Kevin. Thanks for sharing it with us. :icon_flower:

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Re: Is there anybody else here?
« Reply #5 on: November 07, 2014, 04:44:39 PM »
Almost forgot :P

I'm not a poem writer, but with your beautiful poems I found this one written by another that hit me with where I am nowadays...

The sound of her silk skirt has stopped
On the marble pavement the dust grows.
Her empty room is cold and still.
Fallen leaves are piled against the doors.
Longing for that lovely lady
How can I bring my aching heart to rest?







Dear Kevin!

I hope this is your real name.
Have you ever seen the Lake House with Sandra Bullock and Keanu Reeves from 2006?I feel somehow like this now.Id like to express my feelings the best I can in passage of my poem written for my beloved Jan the last night:

"I know your concept of time has changed
as though was every day for ever stayed,
being here youd efface of my tears flow,
with dreaming of you it becomes less raw.

The life without you seems as a stage play
that reminds me youre my only real way,
I want to be with you as my loving part,
missing you so is tearing off my heart.

As time passes by I meet so bad dreams
that being awake much better so seems,
although I get alone through this life,
in heaven Im forever your real wife."


Janka
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you know how much I love you,also stars above,
you will always be my dearest and only one,
I can not wait to be with you,my beloved Jan.

Janka

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Re: Is there anybody else here?
« Reply #6 on: November 07, 2014, 09:26:27 PM »
Hi Janka.. I'll never forget all of my friends on this website.. They've been with me through perhaps the worst time in my life.  I hope we can be friends.. And know nobody really understands the horror of what you've been been/are going through in your daily life except somebody else who has gone through bereavement as well. I can clearly see the immense love you have for your man in your beautiful poems and the kind of life you lead with him gone.  I am sorry I haven't been back to visit here as often as I used to do..please just know you have my understanding and compassion as only a widower can give.  God bless you Janka.
((((((Janka))))))

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Re: Is there anybody else here?
« Reply #7 on: November 08, 2014, 03:25:40 PM »

Hi Janka! How are you tonight? I'm looking into a chat room for the holidays as some of the members like having a place to go beyond the board where they can share pictures, videos, etc. I also enjoy having the 'One on One contact!' We used to have a year round chat room, notice the button at the top of the board next to calendar and for awhile it sure was busy in there.

I would continue to post and as people come home from work and even on the weekemds you may find a member that wants to share with you.

Sending you a big hug and lots of love, :love4:

((((((((Janka)))))))))

Terry







Dear Terry!

Would be great to share our stories,pictures or videos also on this board as we all sail in the same boat.I enjoy the answers I received yesterday.It makes me feel better tonight.Im here every day since I have my new family here.

Thanks for all the hugs!

Janka
​I always kiss you from the heart,my endless love,
you know how much I love you,also stars above,
you will always be my dearest and only one,
I can not wait to be with you,my beloved Jan.

Janka

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Re: Is there anybody else here?
« Reply #8 on: November 08, 2014, 04:06:10 PM »
Hi Janka.. I'll never forget all of my friends on this website.. They've been with me through perhaps the worst time in my life.  I hope we can be friends.. And know nobody really understands the horror of what you've been been/are going through in your daily life except somebody else who has gone through bereavement as well. I can clearly see the immense love you have for your man in your beautiful poems and the kind of life you lead with him gone.  I am sorry I haven't been back to visit here as often as I used to do..please just know you have my understanding and compassion as only a widower can give.  God bless you Janka.
((((((Janka))))))


Dear Arthur!

Im pleased with your friendship.As I have no close family,the friendship is very important for me by all means.

Thanks for your understanding and comfort!Ill look forward to hear from you as often as possible.

How little is needed to put a smile on the face...

Janka

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you know how much I love you,also stars above,
you will always be my dearest and only one,
I can not wait to be with you,my beloved Jan.

Janka

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Re: Is there anybody else here?
« Reply #9 on: November 08, 2014, 04:18:15 PM »
Dear Terry,Kevin,Arthur,Lisa and others!

I couldnt fall asleep last night,so I was reading the post from all of you and it caressed my soul more than anyone would has thought about,thats why I feel so good today,thankful Ive got all of you on this board.I try to be responding to everyone in the forum no matter how much answers Ive got,but you all on this board/our board know the best how I feel and your friendship is the most important for me anyway as you all exactly know what Ive been going through almost 3 years.Im so happy Ive found this site,though later but I have.I look forward to hear from you as often as possible.

You all are great!

Send you the warmest hugs!

Janka
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you know how much I love you,also stars above,
you will always be my dearest and only one,
I can not wait to be with you,my beloved Jan.

Janka

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Re: Is there anybody else here?
« Reply #10 on: November 09, 2014, 05:29:57 AM »
Janka,

I am sorry you were feeling alone.  I am/we are here.   :icon_flower:

You are so kind and I am glad you found us ....


Sending hugs ....

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Lisa
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Re: Is there anybody else here?
« Reply #11 on: November 09, 2014, 06:25:38 PM »
Janka,

I am sorry you were feeling alone.  I am/we are here.   :icon_flower:

You are so kind and I am glad you found us ....


Sending hugs ....

Always,

Lisa



Dear Lisa!

Thanks for your kind answer!Im happy to be with you and others on here.Everytime I receive the post from you,I feel better again.Such a nice feeling!

Thanks that you care,Lis...

Im sending you hugs,too.

Janka
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you know how much I love you,also stars above,
you will always be my dearest and only one,
I can not wait to be with you,my beloved Jan.

Janka

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Re: Is there anybody else here?
« Reply #12 on: November 10, 2014, 05:46:21 PM »
just in the wings for a while its that time of the year  :love4:

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Re: Is there anybody else here?
« Reply #13 on: November 14, 2014, 02:10:15 PM »
Dear Lisa!

Today was happening something that makes you smile again.A few people have made up their mind to celebrate the Thanksgiving at work for all around.Great news!Isnt it?Its going to be the next Wednesday all day long.This is another way to be closer to you this way too.I enjoy the next week.It will be nice.I think of you all these days to make it easier for you...

Hugs from your Slovak friend Janka...
​I always kiss you from the heart,my endless love,
you know how much I love you,also stars above,
you will always be my dearest and only one,
I can not wait to be with you,my beloved Jan.

Janka

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« Reply #14 on: November 14, 2014, 05:11:47 PM »
Janka


That is great !! Is everyone going to bring something into work or at someone's house ? Thanksgiving here is the 27th.  I leave for NY on the 26th and I will be back that Sunday.


Always Philly girl Lisa


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