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Gail08

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An EXTREMELY hard time
« on: September 25, 2014, 03:40:20 PM »
Yesterday was VERY hard as it was my mom and dad's anniversary.  It would have been their 55th.  I missed my mother SO VERY much yesterday.  I went to her grave and cried.  I still can't believe she is gone.  I want her back so bad.

And on top of yesterday I am fixing to have to face the month of October with out the support of my mother.  Losing a sister, 2 grandparents and a cousin all in the same month makes the month SO VERY hard to face.  And to have to do it without the support of my mother makes it even harder.  Plus, October 1st is my birthday and it will be my first one without my mother.  She ALWAYS baked me a cake and fixed me a special dinner for my birthday so I am really going to miss that.

I would like to ask for your prayers as this is a VERY difficult and hard time for me.  I am hurting so very much right now and am really struggling about facing the month of October.  Sometimes I am not sure I a strong enough to make it through the pain of the coming days and I need prayers for strength to make it through.  Thank You.
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Re: An EXTREMELY hard time
« Reply #1 on: September 25, 2014, 08:44:10 PM »
You have my prayers, friend.  Wish I could alleviate some of your pain. XO

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Re: An EXTREMELY hard time
« Reply #2 on: September 27, 2014, 12:27:19 AM »
Thank you Scott.  That means so much.
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Re: An EXTREMELY hard time
« Reply #3 on: September 27, 2014, 02:39:58 PM »

Sending hugs & love to you, (((((((Gail))))))) :love9:

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Re: An EXTREMELY hard time
« Reply #4 on: October 05, 2014, 01:13:36 AM »
Thank you Terry.  My heart is hurting so much right now.  This is an EXTREMELY hard time and I appreciate your support.  Please keep me in your prayers for strength to get through this.
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Re: An EXTREMELY hard time
« Reply #5 on: October 23, 2014, 10:27:30 AM »
(((((((Gail)))))))

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Re: An EXTREMELY hard time
« Reply #6 on: October 23, 2014, 03:09:18 PM »
Thank you Doug.
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Re: An EXTREMELY hard time
« Reply #7 on: October 26, 2014, 06:28:40 PM »


GAIL:
Thoughts and prayers are with you.  Special days and holidays can be tough and especially lonely.

I can relate to what you are going through.  My dad passed on October 1 and today is his birthday.  It is tough to lose any of our loved ones, especially those who are dearest to us.  Sometimes I think about making a phone call and the remember that it isn't possible.  

We all grieve in different ways.  I've allowed myself to have a "crying day" today, but I know I have to push myself to keep busy with something.  We can't replace our lost loved one, but I know we have to move forward and allow other people into our lives and create new relationships and memories to hopefully lessen the void we now feel.

Munchey

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Re: An EXTREMELY hard time
« Reply #8 on: October 27, 2014, 05:24:10 PM »
(((Munchey)))

Although it was yesterday, I would like to honor your Father by wishing him a Happy Heavenly Birthday.

I hope the day brought a special memory even with the sadness weighing so heavy from your Father dying so recently.

With love, :love9:
Terry

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Re: An EXTREMELY hard time
« Reply #9 on: October 27, 2014, 08:22:39 PM »
(((Munchey)))

Although it was yesterday, I would like to honor your Father by wishing him a Happy Heavenly Birthday.

I hope the day brought a special memory even with the sadness weighing so heavy from your Father dying so recently.

With love, :love9:
Terry



TERRY:
Thank you so much for your kind thoughts!
Munchey  
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