Tomorrow is my sister's birthday and I am so dreading the day. If she were still alive we would be together. I would either be going to be treating her to an all-day celebration on the town or be giving her her gift in some fun way. An example of how I gave her her gift one year was I put her gift in the bottom of a shirt box. I then placed layers of tissue paper on top of it. On top of each layer of tissue paper I placed a card with a trivia question on it. She would have to answer a question before she could take off each layer of tissue paper. She loved it and we both had so much fun. As far as a celebration on the town, one year I treated her to a movie, lunch, shopping and a treat of her choice (she chose a snow cone). She had fun enjoying her day of being treated, I had fun treating her and we both had fun spending time together. I would give ANYTHING to be able to do something like that tomorrow. From one birthday to the next neither of us knew how the other was going to give us our gift. This may seem like something small to all of you but to us it was great fun and something we really enjoyed and looked forward to each year. I just miss her SOOOOO much and tomorrow is going to be so hard without my mother's support to get through the day.