Sally..I, along with many other volunteers here in my town help to place people, (from 18 to 80) who desperately need a job in a position closely suited for them. Just last week we placed two of our seniors, one 73 and the other 76 at Winn Dixie, bagging groceries. It was not the jobs they desired but they both have jobs and they are happy.
In fact just today I ran into one of the ladies and she is making friends. She is very personable and was invited to Bingo this Saturday. She hasn't been out of the house in months. Not to socialize, anyway. Her husband recently died. So, any job could become a gateway to a much better one as you connect with different types of people.
Besides myself there are many on these boards who have been caregivers for their loved ones. Their loved ones didn't get better, either but they had someone who loved them enough to care for them, to make sure they were comfortable and out of pain and most importantly they knew they were not alone when they died. You're doing the best you can do, Sally. You're there for those who need you. But, please remember to also care for yourself. It's not easy but try to take one day and do something you like to do. Sometimes we can't take a whole day so maybe a couple of hours. Any time that is set aside just for your needs alone, will benefit you greatly.
As I shared with you in an earlier post, I understand losing everyone. I know how devastating it is. Just know that we are here for you.
Love,
Terry