It is nice to hear some positive things, Arthur. I send you wishes for continued healing of your shoulder and continued progress as you walk through grief. I guess progress is all we can ask for sometimes. Robbie, 3 months was very difficult for me, I send you prayers and encouragement. It doesn't get easier, but it does get 'different'. Terry, your encouragement and sweet comments on here shine like a candle to me sometimes. Thank you. I hated facing 2014, my first full year without my husband, but I know I can “do life" and work through my grief as well. Hugs to all as this year moves on --- Diane