Thanks, all, for sharing here.
Mothers' Day is such a hard day.
Mine went pretty well - the girls (foster daughters, 16 & 13) got me flowers and some small gifts, which was great.
What has been interesting is that each year, I've felt as if I had a gift from Vince as well.
The first Mothers' Day without him I don't really remember clearly, but the second one (2011), I found a nest of baby robins in the vines that grow outside my back door - such an unlikely place, so precarious! And I watched mamma bird feed them until they left the nest one by one. Vince was a big bird lover, so I felt it was from him
The next one, the girls got me some small gifts, among them, a little green plastic alien that looked just like something Vince once got me. I asked them why they picked this out, and they shrugged and said "We just wanted to."
This year, the girls included one of those bird seed bells among their gifts, saying "that way, you'll see more birds coming into your back yard!" They didn't even know about the other bird/Mothers'Day connection. So again, I felt I had a present from Vince.
I can't wait to see what I get next year.
Best wishes and hugs to all on this bittersweet day.