John, my heart goes out to you. It is difficult enough to live without our beloved child much less to have to "celebrate" the special events such as Danielle's 12th birthday without her physcially being with you and yours.
I would like to ask the board to send happy birthday wishes to Danielle and hopefully the combined energies of all our love will reach her and make her feel very special as you already know that she is.
L,
Paula