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MyLou

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TEARS TEARS, I MISS LOU SO MUCH
« on: January 04, 2013, 10:18:41 AM »
Of course I have my bad days. Don't we all  :tearyeyed:

Since yesterday, my surgery tears have been flowing. The tears flow my face again since this morning , now afternoon. :tearyeyed:

Lou should be here, helping me.  Doesn't he know I need his help. I talk to everyday and I am so sad.

I have pain in my foot and he would help me heal faster if he were here.



Thanks for listening.


Always,

Lisa
« Last Edit: January 04, 2013, 10:26:00 AM by MyLou »
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Re: TEARS TEARS, I MISS LOU SO MUCH
« Reply #1 on: January 04, 2013, 10:47:15 AM »
((((Lisa))))

Lou is with you, beside you to help you through this.  :engel2:

Speedy recovery,
John

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« Reply #2 on: January 04, 2013, 11:56:35 AM »
((((Lisa))))

My heart hurts for you and the loss of your Lou, it's so evident how much you love him.  So awful that you have to go on without him physically here.   :tearyeyed:

Hoping you recover soon.
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Re: TEARS TEARS, I MISS LOU SO MUCH
« Reply #3 on: January 04, 2013, 12:47:37 PM »
(((((((((((Lisa))))))))))))))

So sorry you must go through this without your Lou by your side. He knows you need him and is very close at hand doing what he can for you. Try to relax and let that happen. I hope you have a speedy recover!

Jean

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« Reply #4 on: January 05, 2013, 05:18:15 PM »
((((((((((((((( EVERYONE ))))))))))))))))

Thank you so much.  I know you all are right My Lou is with me.  I do truly believe he is but you know it's so different now.

I am so tired working on 9 hrs total of sleep in two days since my surgery.  Ugh

Thank you for always being there for me you are all My Family/Angels. :engel2:


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Lisa
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Re: TEARS TEARS, I MISS LOU SO MUCH
« Reply #5 on: January 05, 2013, 05:19:15 PM »
Hey, do you have an update for us on how you're feeling? I'm sure you are well rested.  :love4:

((((((Lisa))))))

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« Reply #6 on: January 05, 2013, 05:22:33 PM »
((((((((((((((( EVERYONE ))))))))))))))))

I am so tired working on 9 hrs total of sleep in two days since my surgery.  Ugh

 


You're not sleeping? At least try to rest your body and your mind. Sometimes if you stay in bed long enough you'll fall asleep, or at least cat nap. Are you in any pain?

How are you activity wise? Able to get around Ok yet?

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« Reply #7 on: January 05, 2013, 09:15:57 PM »
And follow up to what Terry said, if you are not sleeping and or are in pain, maybe it is time to contact your doctor for some help in those areas...or if the doctor did prescribe something, take it....   (((((((((LISA)))))))))))))

 :coffee2:   This is not a cup of coffee...but a cup of warm milk to help you sleep.

Let me know if I can do anything.

Jean

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Re: TEARS TEARS, I MISS LOU SO MUCH
« Reply #8 on: January 06, 2013, 08:13:00 PM »
Hey Lisa,

How are you feeling??

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« Reply #9 on: January 07, 2013, 05:57:11 AM »
Terry n Jean,

Saturday night I didn't sleep any better but Sunday I was napping through out the day.  Last night I slept better too, yay.

I do have pain and have the pain meds. I was trying not to take them but started  when needed.

I have to prop my foot up with my knee slightly bent.  I have to apply ice every hour for 20 minutes and take advil 3 times a day.  I do try and get in up in between I have a surgical shoe. 

I go back to the doctor on Wednesday for a follow up.  I will probably stay home and not come back to Lancaster.  I feel like a burden even though I've been trying to get my ice every hour.

Thank for caring and checking on me.

Sending hugs .......


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Lisa
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« Reply #10 on: January 07, 2013, 09:40:15 AM »

So glad you slept! Take good care of yourself until you're fully recovered! :love4: And, thanks for the update!

(((((((((Lisa)))))))))

Sending hugs and love,
Terry

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« Reply #11 on: January 07, 2013, 07:48:01 PM »
((((Lisa))))

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Re: TEARS TEARS, I MISS LOU SO MUCH
« Reply #12 on: January 07, 2013, 08:00:40 PM »
(((((((((((((Lisa)))))))))))) hope your feeling beter  :love4: jbryant

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« Reply #13 on: January 07, 2013, 08:41:06 PM »
Lisa,
So glad to hear you finally got some rest and sleep. Be sure to continue to take your meds as prescribed...no real need to not take them specially when you are in pain. Take good care of yourself and don't rush home if you don't have to...it is nice to have someone around and I'm sure your sister does not feel you are a burden.

Continue to feel better!!

Hugs
Jean

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Re: TEARS TEARS, I MISS LOU SO MUCH
« Reply #14 on: January 08, 2013, 07:32:49 AM »
So glad to know you are starting to feel a little better.  Keeping your foot elevated, really does help with lessening the pain.  Ice packs are annoying but they too help!  Glad you can get up some.  You are fortunate.  I was bed ridden for 6 weeks.  It is troublesome staying with relatives but do not be in too big of a hurry to leave until you are better.  Perhaps you should discuss it with the doctor before making a decision.  It is hard to handle difficult situations by your self.  It is times like this that force us to realize how much we depended on our loved one & it makes us become stronger people.  It is not an easy process!  My heart goes out to you at this difficult time!