(((John)))
Wow. Being able to allow yourself to date sounds huge to me. I and a lady from a grief group are considering having a cup of coffee after a session one day. That would be far from a date, but still a big deal to me. I haven't done it yet, or even got past thinking about it, but it makes me nervous. But heck, I could use a friend.
I wish you well, John. Have fun.