Today is the first day of my long weekend, four days off work. I went to the gym for a training session as usual this morning, and that always helps me, makes me feel better about things, must be the endorphins. However, the last three or four days have been hard to bear. I am missing Elaine more than I can say, feeling so sad without her. Everything in the house reminds me of her, but at the moment makes me very sad. I don't want to move things around yet, because I need to be reminded of her, in fact I always want to be reminded of her. Elaine was a massive part of my life for 31 years, the one I will love forever, we both thought there would be many more years together. I still find the odd hairgrip, or emery board, or sewing needle lying somewhere tucked at the edge of the carpet, somewhere like that, probably been there for years. But they always make me smile, also make me cry, she was the last person to touch or use that particular item, whenever it was. Have also had white butterflies fly near me in our front garden several times over the past couple of days, also found a couple of white feathers just outside the front door, I like to think she sent them. Although I am feeling very sad right now, I also get comfort from the fact that Elaine is definitely close to me, I just know it, I feel it. I talk to her, especially before going to sleep at night, I just know she is near me.
Love
Joe
xx