I agree with Pam and Sonya, Rose. Bill is watching and I wouldn't doubt helping Matt grow into the man he is becoming.
I have absolutely no doubt that our loved ones stay with us, and the more we accept and let them help, the more they will.
I do know what you're talking about, though. When I got married, my brother would've been standing next to me, but I lost him three years before. My best friend was there instead. It was very bittersweet. My college graduation that my brother missed. My wife's college graduation that my dad missed. A lot of things since then have felt that way. Even if it is a little bitter, I've come to accept the sweet.
They're still with us.
I hope Matt has a good time at prom and that you both get to enjoy it even if it is a bittersweet moment.
(((((((Rose)))))))))
Doug