Hello everyone --
My name is Zandra, and I found webhealing soon after my brother David's death in a horrible car wreck on March 5, 2010. David led a troubled life and in the end, he "chose" death over going to prison/jail. He was only 44 years old. Part of his troubles stemmed from the loss of my mother when he was a teenager -- she died 26 years ago at the age of 45 in a home accident -- both way too young not to be on this earth living.
I have found "talking" on this website and voicing my feelings and hurt to be a huge help to me. Sometimes talking about David still brings me to tears after two years now. I dont think I'll ever get over his death, too tragic.
Besides losing my baby brother, and my mom 26 years ago, I've also lost my dad 4 years ago to cancer, and most recently my step-brother -- these two not unexpected. I think I've dealt with these losses, and dont feel the pain as much as I do w/ David.
Thank you all here at webhealing for always understanding, always listening. Love to all, deebee