I have been exchanging emails with a lady in Toronto who is a grief councellor. WE have never met, my email address want sent to her because of her lengthy history as a councellor. She also is a medium. Last week she sent me an email and said that my spouse contacted her and wanted me to be ok. She also said many things which were totally different. She looked nothing like the description the medium gave me, and nothing much else seemed familiar to me. I am not offended or anything because it did not cost me anything. I did not expect the medium to tell me anything negative. I dont think anyones loved-one would want us to suffer. WE hurt because we miss them, not because we believe our loved-ones want us to hurt and grieve. She told me the spirits contact her, and not vice versa, and she has no control. So I will probably receive more emails about this. I am not upset with it even though I told her at the beginning I was not a believer. We would all love to have our loved-ones back here with us, and that will not happen I am afraid. Andy
