Hi Joe..Read your post and I thought I would say something about it. Even though I personally would never trust anyone to speak on behalf of my wife..I can understand your desire to speak to your wife. I often wished I could speak to Maureen, at first desperately right after she died, but the desire persisted. I longed to know how she was doing. I had dreams of her recently..which I believe were sent to me from her. They didn't reveal any special secrets about her current state..they just let me know she is well-which was all I cared to know. I believe that its my business that any words between myself and my wife are for us only and not for anyone else to hear, especially someone who hopes to profit as a go between her and I. I am not saying that no one can act as a medium...its just that I think our love for each other deserves its own dignity and privacy. I talk to to her daily, and pray for her well being daily, when I am by myself. I honestly lieve she hears me and prays on my behalf. I may not get a response right away, but odd things happen in the course of a day, or a week..and then I know it was her praying for me. But as you know the bottom line for any of us here is that no amount of talking with our spouses, whether through a medium or by ourselves, or in dreams, or anywhere else is going to bring them back to us, and it is our business to carry on and get through this awful grief we are all going through and heal ourselves. Of course our spouses would want us healed of our grief. Whether talking to your wife through a medium will help you in healing only you can decide. As for me...talking to Maureen by myself has helped me to heal alot. Hope this helps! God Bless, arthur