Hello to all:
I do have to agree with Bob. I don't think he said anything out of line.
And at the same time I do, do, understand the longing you all have to know something about your loved one and to hear them one more time maybe.
The grieving mind yearns for contact, and that is so understandable.
When my sister-in-law died, eleven years ago, (and as I have no sisters, she became my sister when she married my brother, and we were very close friends), I would find myself turning around expecting to see her coming in the door of the room. I could "see" her to all intents and purposes, and even seem to hear that voice. The sensation was strong but I knew it was my longing to see her one more time, to sit and have a coffee together, and see her smile.
If I felt like that imagine how my brother and his three then teenage children felt, and her mother......!
But we all had to let her go, as I have had to let my parents go too. It would not have crossed my mind to consult a medium. I do light a candle in their memory, and sit quietly when I can, and remember....
That is just me, and in no way implies a judgment of those who feel that seeing a medium is what they must do.
I actually know someone, a man, who practises as a medium. He and his partner were stone broke, and now he has a fine house in a very attractive part of the world, lots of money, and I know his readings are exorbitantly priced, because I have seen the prices on his site.
But, obviously, he is kept busy and people visit him.
Best to everyne
Seven