Stampingwidow
Be easy on yourself. It is hard to get anything done when you are hurting like this. As a very wise person told me once we are little toddlers. Have to take baby steps. I try to set myself simple goals. Like just get 1 load of laundry done. Or just make that 1 phone call today and maybe I'll make 2 tomorrow.
For a while I was carding her phone with me to feel closer to her. I also huged her cloths. Now I just talk to her.
I hope some of this helps.
Jason