This is great! Thanks for sharing this, Lisa.
Over the years, some have shared that it's 'depressing' coming to a grief and healing board but maybe that's because the 'healing' side of grief is still so distant and not in their future. What 'I' find depressing is sitting in a crowded restaurant and feeling totally alone. What I also find depressing is having family over and feeling like I'm going to disappear.
I've never found solace or even the slightest meaning in small talk. The everyday chit-chat of the social networks has always left a lot to be desired for me. I enjoy sharing one-on-one, real feelings and with real people. I don't want people to tell me what they think I want to hear. I want to hear what's in their heart.
This board and you people have been a lifeline for me. It's the only place where I do not feel alone and more than that, I know I'm understood, regardless of who responds because everyone reading can relate in some way.
When I feel that I'm falling over, yes, Lisa it's so nice to know that I have someone to lean on.
Thank You for this reminder! And, back-atcha.....Lean on me!!
Love,
Terry