Re: after 30 years
« Reply #45 on: Today at 11:13:14 AM »
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Can anyone please help with a question: It was a year ago April 16th that my husband passed away and Today is my husbands birthday and I am especially sensitive today. My job, I am a caregiver of an elderly person, who was yesterday put into the care of hospice. I have and worked threw issues regarding hospice without getting into them. The husband of my client is a very negative person, but I have grown to love him and his wife. He has no family close to him or friends that he relies on for any help. I am still working threw my own grief and issues but have been doing fairly well attempting to move on. A month ago I lost my home and am now living with my son and grand daughter, Just lost 2 friends of mine within the last 2 months. Now I have this in front of me. My wounds just keep on getting open. My question is: do I continue to do my best knowing my issues and seeing his pain already with hospice and the death of his wife approching quickly or should I talk to my office regarding my feelings and back away from the client and husband I have grown to love. Thank you anyone that may have some input regarding a situation like mine. God Bless