Thank you, Terry. When I wake in the morning, its the hardest because it all hits me fresh again. I have an appointment this morning to speak to my therapist who I have been seeing about 6 months now. I started seeing her because this is something I was always so afraid of , and knew I would need alot of help, especially now, when my Gram is gone. I am hoping she can help.
I don't know when I should go back to work. I was going to go Monday but I changed it till Tuesday, and hope I can make that. I am a private person and just dread people coming up to me. I know they mean well, but it just opens it all up. How can I work when I am in so much pain? I know I have to go back but don't know how.
I think I am losing it sometimes. In my mind I hear my Gram saying things to me like come on, its ok, and Grams ok, I'm sorry I couldn't stay with you anymore but I'm here. Then I don't know if its really her with me or me just telling myself these things to make myself feel better. It just happens out of the blue though and I am not thinking of doing it. We always had such a connection, I hope its her. Does anyone else experience this?
I am praying for everyone on this site. I never knew the pain in this. always knew it would be the worst ever, but never just how bad.
My friend who lost her Mom years ago keeps telling me to pray to the Holy Spirit....I am doing that.
God bless and love to you all. Thanks for answering my posts. It really helps.