Ditto--just read this today. Don't do anything bad that you would regret, and horribly not be able to take back. I'm sure we all understand that wish. Wouldn't it be great to visit "the other side", spend the day or infinite time with those we love who have passed on, come back to this side, without having lost any time at all, and know that our lost loves are doing well, are happy and content, so that we can finally make peace with our feelings and our own lives. God I wish we could build that kind of time travel capsule. It would be the greatest invention in the universe. Is there really a hereafter?