John, We just came back from visiting Adam and lighting the last candle on the Menorah. We had plans to go out to dinner tonight w/a couple that my husband totally enjoys. Instead, my husband is now in bed, wiped out. He has not been sleeping well (nor I) and last night was one of those nights where he did not sleep at all. One of Adam's closest friends came by tonight and joined us at the cemetary, her weeping for Adam broke our hearts.
A holiday without our child, a day, and hour....is all too much, not one should ever have to bear such pain and loss.
I hope you find some comfort tonight in loving memories of Danielle.
L,
Paula