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LaVonne

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« on: October 08, 2010, 07:20:43 AM »
Terry: I was trying to put Jasons name in Nov anniversaries and did not know it was on the 6th so hit the button and Jason appeared in the 6th for his anniversary. Could you please remove that because I really don't know how. This year has been the worst yea I have had in many. I feel myself slipping into the dark hole and can't seem to pull myself out. I have been doing really good for 5 or more years and now wham it is taking me down, and I feel so helpless.  I really hate this feeling. So much going on that I cannot change. thanks for listening and letting me vent. It feels good to have someone to talk to. LaVonnw

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« Reply #1 on: October 08, 2010, 10:13:16 AM »
Hi LaVonne,

I changed it a few days ago, when I saw your first message asking me. Sorry, I should have let you know I changed it.

I know exactly how you feel regarding falling back again. I do it, too and in January it will be 8 years since my Jeff died. I don't really think it matters how much time goes by and I know it has a lot to do with everything else we have going on. It seems to just magnify our losses. I understand.

Know I am here with my hand outstretched waiting for yours to take hold so you do not go any deeper into that abyss. Because, when I've needed a hand, yours was always there for me!

Everything is going to be OK, LaVonne. One day at a time and stay close to your support system...US!!!

You know I love you. We all love you, LaVonne.

Terry

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« Reply #2 on: October 08, 2010, 11:14:32 AM »
Hi LaVonne,


Know I am here with my hand outstretched waiting for yours to take hold so you do not go any deeper into that abyss. Because, when I've needed a hand, yours was always there for me!


Terry

Terry ~ you have such a way with words.  I love you.  Even if you're not writing directly to me, your words always touch my heart.
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« Reply #3 on: October 09, 2010, 11:01:58 PM »
Thank You, Pam...what a nice thing to say. I appreciate that and I love you, too!!

You touched 'my' heart when we first met on this board!!

You have my love,
Terry

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« Reply #4 on: October 10, 2010, 05:27:08 AM »
lOVING ALL OF YOU NEVER WOULD SURVIVE THIS JOURNEY WITHOUT ANY OF YOU, WISH WE COULD ALL GET TOGETHER FOR A BIG GROUP HUG!!!!!! A LADY SAID SOMETHING RUDE TO ME AT WORK FRI., HURT MY FEELINGS , I CRIED BEHIND THE BAR I HAVE WORKED AT 4, 26 YRS , RAN EVERYONE OFF.Y DID WE HAVE TO BECOME SO SENSITIVE, IT WAS EITHER THAT OR SMACK HER! NO ONE ABSOLUTLY NO ONE UNDERSTANDS , I GET SO UPSET CRING ALL THE TIME OVER LIL THINGS. THANKS FOR LETTING ME VENT, LOVE ALL OF YOU FOR YOUR UNDERSTANDING. MY 3 YEAR JOURNEY THAT I SEE NEVER EVER GETTING BETTER .
                 LOVE SANDY SHANES MOM











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« Reply #5 on: October 11, 2010, 02:30:40 PM »
Sandy: I am so sorry this happened. Your right no one on the outside understands. We all do because we live it everyday. It gets better but sometimes like me we take a dive and have to crawl back out. We do live but it is sure different now.  sending hugs to you LaVonne

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« Reply #6 on: October 17, 2010, 11:27:34 PM »
Sandy,

It must be very hard dealing with the public especially with the Holiday's almost here. I'm sorry you were hurt. Until we can all get together for that group hug, I'm sending you a big 'one-on-one!'

Always thinking of you!

(((((((((((((((Sandy)))))))))))))))

Love you,
Terry