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Hi everybody this is Kelly's mum
« on: August 16, 2010, 06:50:25 PM »
Been awhile, but read posts often.
Over 4ys now since I lost Kelly and 2ys since my husband die.
My God it's been hard, With no one to talk to about Kelly
being all alone and having lots of heath pro's.
My grief for Kelly has softened a little now, which I never would not have belived
If someone would have said that it would  to me in the first year's'
they would have been talking out there hats.
I smile now at the beautiful memories of her now, cry too. (a lot)

Don't see a lots of photo's our great kids so much now miss there lovely faces
that's good I hope, it mean's their getting on with life, acceptance their sadness.
And that we learn to know that sadness is part of our life's now.
know I'm rambling on
not good with words.
Tom thankyou so very much for this website know that you have help so many parents
in this hell of a journey.

Love to all Marzz Kelly's mum
Thank You Kelly For Being My Daughter.

  

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Re: Hi everybody this is Kelly's mum
« Reply #1 on: August 16, 2010, 09:48:52 PM »
Dear Marzz,

I think your words are just fine. They express your love for your beautiful daughter. I am grateful to you for sharing her with us, thank you :)
Is there something you do to help yourself through the worst days? I know all the days are harder than we think we can get through but for me sometimes I just don't even want to get out of bed.
One thing I did was make a garden for my son. I go out there and plant flowers and vegetables that i know he would like and I sit and talk to him, I tell him how much I miss him. It helps a little bit.
Thank you so much for saying hi. Please feel free to come back any time you want.

Annie (Dans mom)
Much love,
Annie (Dans mom)

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« Reply #2 on: August 26, 2010, 04:25:57 AM »
Thanks Annie for your reply
Well two days after I posted this, Doc sent me for CT scan,
well would'nt you know it, they found I have a brain tumour
Don't fancy the op, but I'm not afraid.
Nothing is as bad as losing my Kelly
I'll get their if it's not the bigC.
Will let you know how I get on if I can, will have Kelly with me,
she is always here with me.

love to you all marzz

Thank You Kelly For Being My Daughter.

  

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Re: Hi everybody this is Kelly's mum
« Reply #3 on: August 26, 2010, 10:44:31 AM »
Hi Marzz,

So nice to see your post but sorry to hear of your health issues. I know everything will be fine. Keep us updated when you'er on the road to recovery!

Yes, we 'do' smile and even laugh thinking about our precious children and the love they brought into our lives. It feels good when we reach the point in our grief when we are able to do this.

Take care of yourself and look forward to hearing how you're doing!

Thank you for sharing your beautiful Kelly with us. Your words always touch my heart!

((((((Marzz & Kelly)))))

My love,
Terry


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Re: Hi everybody this is Kelly's mum
« Reply #4 on: August 27, 2010, 07:34:05 AM »
Marz, So sorry for all your health issues.Thanks for sharing your beautiful pictues of your Kelly again & keeping us posted.I will so be thinking of you as you go thru this very major issue, please let us know how you are doing.My thoughts & heart goes out to you. Lov Sandy Shanes Mom

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« Reply #5 on: August 31, 2010, 05:44:18 AM »
Marzz:   I am so sorry for all that you have been through.  I will pray for you that all goes well with op. I hope you have family to be with you at this time. Please know I care and anytime you want to talk let me know.  You can email me anytime. It is a tough road to travel when we lose our children. It gets better with time but we will never be who we were before we lost them.  Keep us updated on you and take care of you.  thinking of you and Kelly .Sending hugs  Lavonne
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