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YESTERDAY(MAY 13,2010)CANDI'S BEEN GONE 5 YRS.
« on: May 14, 2010, 05:16:14 PM »
yesterday CANDI  was gone 5 yrs. it doesn't seem real that she's been gone that long.
then again at time's it feels like it just happened. i miss her so much. she was 23 when she was killed. & she'd be 28 now. her son(josh) was 7 when she died & he's 12 now.
at time's i have a hard time being atound JOSH. i can't stand the thought that his mommy is gone. his dad has a girlfriend(davina) & she has a son & they live with charles & josh. davina & her son coby-8 are both wonderful. we're all grateful we have them. i asked her on mother's day if both boys told her "happy mother's day". davina said " yes."  i was really glad. i know she can never replace CANDI  & she'd never try but we're glad he does have a mother figure in his life.
he's growing up so fast.
i layed around yesterday. i still hurt everyday & miss her so much.

aunt martha love's you CANDI...


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Re: YESTERDAY(MAY 13,2010)CANDI'S BEEN GONE 5 YRS.
« Reply #1 on: May 15, 2010, 04:53:09 AM »
(((((((((Martha & Candi))))))))))))

Thinking of you & your family today and remembering your beautiful Candi. I hope she sent you a sign to let you know that she is always near.

Love,
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Re: YESTERDAY(MAY 13,2010)CANDI'S BEEN GONE 5 YRS.
« Reply #2 on: May 15, 2010, 05:53:18 AM »
Hi, Martha,

Please know I am thinking of you and your family.

I know the 5 year mark is hard to believe as I am approaching it in Sept. for Tammie.

Candi is in my prayers,

HUGS,
Dottie Tammie's Mom

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Re: YESTERDAY(MAY 13,2010)CANDI'S BEEN GONE 5 YRS.
« Reply #3 on: May 15, 2010, 07:57:32 AM »
Martha,

Holding you close to my heart... as I see so many of us still here and just wonder where has all this time gone?? At times it seems like yesterday that we all were "newbies"... it still is hard to wrap my mind around time.

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Re: YESTERDAY(MAY 13,2010)CANDI'S BEEN GONE 5 YRS.
« Reply #4 on: May 15, 2010, 01:20:01 PM »
(((((((((( Martha))))))))))) It's hard to believe it's been 5 years. Candi is so beautiful. I'm so glad her son is being raised in a family with love.
Love to you Martha
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Re: YESTERDAY(MAY 13,2010)CANDI'S BEEN GONE 5 YRS.
« Reply #5 on: May 15, 2010, 05:14:25 PM »
((((( Martha )))))

I'm sorry. It is hard to believe for me, too that 7 years and 4 months has already passed since Jeff has died and at times the thought leaves me breathless.
I can relate to how you're feeling regarding Josh. Same here re: my GD. She should have her Daddy here. I am so happy for you and for Josh and I know Candi is, too that he is surrounded by so much love.

Take care
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Re: YESTERDAY(MAY 13,2010)CANDI'S BEEN GONE 5 YRS.
« Reply #6 on: May 15, 2010, 10:14:56 PM »
Five years is a long time, yet it can go by quickly. I'm so sorry for your pain and your loss. Michael's date was May 14, and he's been gone 3 years. He would have been 27. Here's to your beautiful Candi! God bless you and I hold you and Candi in my thoughts and prayers.

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Re: YESTERDAY(MAY 13,2010)CANDI'S BEEN GONE 5 YRS.
« Reply #7 on: May 21, 2010, 11:40:47 AM »
Thinking of you Martha...It's hard to believe how time passes with no regard for those lost and those left behind....((((Martha))))
We are coming up on 2 years since Patrick was taken from us...It's just so hard to fathom life without our children in it. Not only is their future lost, but part of ours as well. Take care.....

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Re: YESTERDAY(MAY 13,2010)CANDI'S BEEN GONE 5 YRS.
« Reply #8 on: July 09, 2010, 05:14:58 PM »
Martha

I am sorry I missed Candi's angel day....I hope it passed gently for you ...


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