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Jap Jr

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on year today
« on: November 21, 2009, 07:36:00 AM »
It is 1 year today that I lost my love, Jim
where has the time gone? yet it seems like it's all happening today again.
the seasons changed ........ when? right before my eyes and I don't remember it.
my heart if hurting so much today, have cried and cried all week, as if it were the first one all over again.
I feel so empty and broken ......
I feel so drained .......

I miss you and love you Jim - I miss US
I miss your hugs, kisses, snuggling, talking, laughing, just being together; I miss US

Your Kay

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Re: on year today
« Reply #1 on: November 21, 2009, 07:41:55 AM »
Jap Jr,

Thinking of you today.  You are not alone,  because you have all of us with you.   I hope you will be able to find something special to do for yourself today,  in remembrance of Jim and in taking good care of yourself.

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Re: on year today
« Reply #2 on: November 21, 2009, 08:19:47 AM »
So very sorry Kay. The day you have been dreading is here, today. I wish you strength to get through, today and every day hearafter. Thinking of you.

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« Reply #3 on: November 21, 2009, 03:12:33 PM »
Last month was a year since I lost my dear sister.  We were EXTREMELY close so the one year date was very hard.  I truly understand the miss that you have of your Jim.  My sister and I did so many things together and we will never be able to do them again.  Just keep all your precious memories close to your heart and you will make it through.  Maybe today you could do something that was special to the both of you.  My prayers and support are with you.  Remember thart you are not alone.  All of us here understand your pain.  Stay strong.

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Re: on year today
« Reply #4 on: November 21, 2009, 06:50:20 PM »
Jap Jr I feel for you and I am not looking forward to the 1 yr for me next May. It seems that some days I move forward in this unwanted new life that was given to me, but then there are the days that bring me right back to the beginning.
Take care and hoping tomorrow is a better one for you
Allan
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Re: on year today
« Reply #5 on: November 22, 2009, 11:23:55 AM »
Kay, I am so sorry for your loss. Seems like the time goes by but it always feels like it just happened. It has been over 2 yrs. since I lost my husband, but I still feel like it was yesterday. I just want you to know I am thinking of you and holding you close in my heart. (((hugs))) Donna

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Re: on year today
« Reply #6 on: November 22, 2009, 03:57:48 PM »
Dear Kay;
It feels like we have travelled this path together on this site. I think of you as a dear friend and I wish you every possible moment of peace. 
Jim is with you, and sorry for your loss as always. Keep going using the strength of both of you,,,
Terri

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Re: on year today
« Reply #7 on: November 22, 2009, 04:57:13 PM »
I am so so sorry. Prayers and love

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Re: on year today
« Reply #8 on: November 23, 2009, 04:44:33 AM »
{{{Kay}}}

Big hugs to you.  You definitely are not alone here.

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Re: on year today
« Reply #9 on: November 23, 2009, 06:50:01 AM »
Dear Kay,

It will be one November 24th since my husband died. The anniversary date seems to bring all the memories front and center, and I know it is extremely painful and sad for you. I think we all have our rituals on that day to remember, honor and mourn the loss.

You are in my thoughts, and know that you have friends who truly understand.

Nori

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Re: on year today
« Reply #10 on: November 24, 2009, 10:43:59 AM »
((((Kay))))
Thinking of you on this hard day, always good memories of your precious Jim.

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Re: on year today
« Reply #11 on: November 24, 2009, 09:53:48 PM »
Thinking of you Nori, sorry you are missing your husband for a whole year. Hope you are well.
Terri

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Re: on year today
« Reply #12 on: November 30, 2009, 08:56:13 AM »
oh Kay.. im crying for u!! Clarence's year is coming up too.. Stay Strong!!!

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Re: on year today
« Reply #13 on: December 09, 2009, 05:41:50 PM »
thanks to all
It has been a tough road and still is, but I do see some light at the end of the tunnel now
I miss Jim so much, he was my rock and kept me grounded
I have to be thankful for my children and grandchildren; they are the loves of my life and not feel so sorry for myself with things and people I don't have
This site has been such a help to me and all the people on it

Prayers and (((hugs)))

Kay

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Re: on year today
« Reply #14 on: December 10, 2009, 08:48:19 AM »
Kay:  Just wanted to add a word of comfort to you at this sad time, and hope that you have at least a peaceful and restful time over the Christmas season.

All the best
Seven