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maggiesmom4life

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Mom has cancer
« on: August 17, 2009, 02:47:06 PM »
Mom has cancer.....Colon cancer. She's hurting, i'm hurting, we are hurting. Chemo is bad. It has changed her personality so much. The chemo has or the disease has. I miss her so much as if she were gone. My heart breaks as I sit here and cry. My only baby girl also passed away after she was  born too soon seven years ago. I need to fight the pain.

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« Reply #1 on: August 17, 2009, 05:40:42 PM »
I'm sorry to hear about your baby and Mom.

I just lost my Mom exactly a month ago. I know how hard it is. Right now, spend as much time with her as you can and tell her how much you love her. Even if you don't think she hears you, keep telling her. Hold her hand and talk to her.

Try to keep some hope because cancer is unpredictable and sometimes when things look bad, it can change into something better.

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« Reply #2 on: August 18, 2009, 08:23:05 AM »
I am sorry to hear about your Mom and your baby. My heart breaks for you. Just be with your Mom as much as possible; talk about things, let her know the love you have for her.

Will be praying for good news; the chemo can be very rough on a person.

peace, strength and ((( hugs )))

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« Reply #3 on: August 18, 2009, 09:21:50 AM »
Jap and SoCal said it well, spend as much time with her at you can....I wish I would have got to spend more time with my brother before he died.

It must be heart breaking for you to go though this.

Stay strong.
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« Reply #4 on: August 18, 2009, 07:07:08 PM »
I am so sorry to hear about your mothers illness. Chemo is tough. My Mom had breast cancer and survived chemo so it can be done, do not lose hope! I am also sorry to hear about your baby girl. I invite you to share your story on the child loss board here. Each board is helpful and full of kind insightful people so either one you choose would be fine. I will be praying for you.
Tammy (Jordan's Mom)

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Re: Mom has cancer
« Reply #5 on: August 19, 2009, 05:20:42 AM »
Thinking of you Maggiesmom;
So very sorry for your loss of your daughter and your pain of seeing your Mom so seriously ill. My heart and prayers are with you. Please write again and tell us how you are. Sending strength and caring.
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« Reply #6 on: August 21, 2009, 07:38:59 AM »
Lost Dad to Cancer and renal failure on May 20th. I understand the heartache of watching someone die. Hold their hand, kiss them love them hold them. they hear you. Believe you did all you can for them. They will always be with you.

Elizabeth

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« Reply #7 on: August 21, 2009, 04:15:05 PM »
Dear Maggiesmom,
so sorry for you pain, so sorry your mom is in pain. I lost my mom to cancer last November. It is a terible disease that noone should have to ever deal with. Sending you all my prayers and lighting a candle for you and your family.

Georgia.
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« Reply #8 on: September 01, 2009, 11:38:34 PM »
How is your Mom doing?

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« Reply #9 on: September 02, 2009, 08:56:40 AM »
very sorry about your mom :(

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Re: Mom has cancer
« Reply #10 on: September 04, 2009, 09:31:18 PM »
So very sorry to hear about you mom.  Bless you.
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