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Rebecca

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So sad
« on: June 29, 2009, 05:28:20 PM »
Long story cut short.  A probationer called.  I knew that his g/f lost her son in Iraq. He called to tell me that her next son was just diagnosed with the same cancer as Farrah Faucet.  I immediately called the woman who asked me: how can this be? She knows he will die also.  I had no answers except my deep breathing.  I told her about Jason.  I told her before I heard about her second son.  I am at a loss and told her so.  I have no answers, only questions.  I am just so sad for her. There are some of you who have lost more than one child.  I don't know how one lives with these losses and I am sure that you don't either.  I am beyond myself with the pain I feel for her. 
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Re: So sad
« Reply #1 on: June 30, 2009, 05:14:48 AM »
Rebecca,

Not much to say.... life certainly is unfair.

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Re: So sad
« Reply #2 on: June 30, 2009, 05:44:18 AM »
So very sad. I sure don't understand why some seem to get such a HUGE cross to bear.

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Re: So sad
« Reply #3 on: June 30, 2009, 06:10:19 AM »
I don't understand it either - it is just beyond words - so kind of you to speak to her though and let her know you are thinking of her.

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Re: So sad
« Reply #4 on: July 01, 2009, 06:59:02 PM »
When I joined the board, I thought I was the only mom who'd lost more than one child. It's helped me to have others here who have survived more than one death. Do you think she might want to look into this board a bit further down the road? My heart goes out to her.

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Re: So sad
« Reply #5 on: July 04, 2009, 07:27:01 AM »
My heart does go out to her. I am so sorry.
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Re: So sad
« Reply #6 on: July 04, 2009, 08:12:42 AM »
I wish there was an answer but It does seem to happen to some and not others.  I can not imagine losing more than one child.  My prayers go out to this lady and her family.  Thinking of you Rebecca and your Jason.  LaVonne

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Re: So sad
« Reply #7 on: July 04, 2009, 10:53:34 AM »
I wish i had something profound to say but there are no words. So so very sad, my heart goes out to her.
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