((( Brenda)))) Your ex sounds like he is just now in the "anger" stage, and I don't think he should have said that to you,, like we need any guilt to add to the pain and sadness. What your bf said was stupid, I'm sorry but that's how I feel. Oh yea, wouldn't we all trade seeing our kids once a month as to "never again" . I know my bf is going through some tough times with his ten year old who is very rude to me and my grandaughter Tristin. I put up with it for months and I finally said NO MORE !!!!! He can see him himself just him and his boy anytime anywhere just not with me. Sorry I'm going into my own venting, but I'm sorry that people say things like that and it still angers me so much.... like we haven't lived through the hell of our kids dying. I, like Jeanne can let a lot roll off more now, but somethings I can't and wont. I tell it like it is,,,, be GRATEFUL your child is HERE!!!!
Sending my love
Brenda
and a huge hug