Hi Mary ~ I know exactly how you feel about your brother's things....when I got to my brother's house after he died, his house had been raped of all things of value.....there was nothing left besides his personal belongings, clothes, socks, underwear.....Tony's house will be auctioned off soon as well, with his things still inside. I feel the same way you do....I am so sorry that you have to go though this. It is so hard, I cry every day.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.