Ray;
I feel your pain in not only having to move, but what to keep and not keep of Patty's things. I am so sorry you have to do that. Where ever you go, you can take the memories you have and the Love you shared. I have not been able to unpack the suitcase Jim used last; it still sits in the bedroom by the window. I even go so far as to smell his deoderant, and I have his razor, comb, wallet and so many of the "little things" like that.
So far, I have been able to keep our home, but barely keeping my chin above the water. It is very difficult; good thing I got a few $$$ back from income taxes to pay the bills for the next month or two. Then house taxes coming, insurance, and so on and so on. Have already cut back on some things. We were not married yet; so no benefits; all went to his children in the estate.
I hope things get better for you Ray; peace and lots of Hugs
Jap Jr's - Kay