Debbie,
My husband was big on our wedding anniv. more than I was and right after he passed away, it was our 20th. So that was very hard, but you'll get passed it. All these "big dates" are going to be hard but we have to get passed the first and go on I guess. The next big firszt for me is my husbands one year since he's gone, and I will be away for that with my family, I'm not looking forward to it, but like I said we have to do it. I'm praying for all of us. I hope you get through your day comfortably.
georgia.