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AARONS MOM

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HI im new and i need you to help me
« on: February 08, 2009, 09:29:36 PM »
newbielink:http:// [nonactive] I lost my son of 25 years to a fatal trafic accident here in washington state 8 weeks ago today. This was my youngest child of my 3 kids. Im sure you know that have a baby or had a baby of your kids how horrific this is.

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Re: HI im new and i need you to help me
« Reply #1 on: February 08, 2009, 09:35:46 PM »

        (((AAROND mom)))
 my prayers for you, we lost our youngest son 8-14-07 due to a fatial auto wreck,he was the youngest of 5 he was 24 years and 6 mo. just know we are here to listen and offer help if we can.
           
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« Reply #2 on: February 08, 2009, 09:40:03 PM »
i know exactly how you feel i lost my youngest son last dec.2007 at the age of 20 today i was finally able to go in his room and clean it up  you are in for a long road but you will make it this site is wonderful and you will see that you are not alone god bless~nancy
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« Reply #3 on: February 08, 2009, 09:44:24 PM »
Aaron's mom,

I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious son.

I also have 3 children and lost my youngest child, Philip, 5 years ago due to injuries sustained in a car accident.  Philip was in the summer before his senior year in high school... he was 17 years old.

You are so very new on the journey.  There are many here who walk this journey with you and understand your pain.  I hope as you are able you will continue to come and post or just read... you are not alone.

Deep breaths and baby steps,
Jeanne
Philip's mom forever
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« Reply #4 on: February 08, 2009, 10:22:33 PM »
((Aaron's Mom)) I lost my 24 year old 29 months ago. My heart goes out to you. 24/7 post and there will be supportive hearts to hold you.
XO Love to all my sisters & brothers-in-grief XO
Wishing you all peaceful moments, signs from your Angels & many blessings

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Re: HI im new and i need you to help me
« Reply #5 on: February 08, 2009, 10:25:21 PM »
Aaron's mom,
I'm so deeply sorry about your precious son. We are here for you.
Love, Brenda
My youngest and only son Taylor has been gone 4 years and 4 months .
I have a daughter , April who is 32
Taylor would have been 19 in 2 months.
Hold on, one second at a time, deep breaths and please please keep coming back even if it's just to read.

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« Reply #6 on: February 09, 2009, 03:22:30 AM »
((((((((Aaron's Mom))))))))

I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious son.  I hope you will post more about him when you are ready.

I lost my firstborn & only son, Joshua (14) on 8/7/99. It has been a very long journey since.  This board is a great place of support & healing.

Hugs,
Dena, Josh's Mom


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« Reply #7 on: February 09, 2009, 06:56:13 AM »
Aaron's mom - I'm so so sad to hear about your precious son! I hope you will find this a safe place to share your grief and your memories of your sweet boy!

I'm not a parent myself - but lost my nephew Christopher, only child of my brother - to a hit and run driver in 2003. Chris was three weeks shy of his 17th birthday, a junior in high school. Chris is the only child in my immediate family as I have none of my own.. we miss him beyond words.

luv and hugs, Karen
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« Reply #8 on: February 09, 2009, 11:55:25 AM »
HI
Sorry to hear of your tragic loss of your son Aaron.
I too am in Washington State. There are some good compassionate friends chapters here you might want to try and give it a go. They were very helpful to me at the beginning, and still are.

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« Reply #9 on: February 09, 2009, 01:45:02 PM »
I lost my youngest son 3 years ago February 22 2006 He was 35. I know how you feel. Hugs Marie Patrick's Mom
                 

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Re: HI im new and i need you to help me
« Reply #10 on: February 09, 2009, 07:41:18 PM »
hello,
  you'll be in my prayers & my thoughts. i'm sorry for the loss of your son.
my niece(CANDI-23) WAS also killed in an automobile wreck friday(may13,2005).
 you've came to a good & safe place. we'll all be here for you.

sending you hug's,
MARTHA

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« Reply #11 on: February 09, 2009, 08:08:55 PM »
No words can express how sorry I am that you have had to find us. My precious son, my firstborn was killed in an auto accident on June 26 1004 at the age of 10. Life ended that day and the person I was, died with him. It is a long, hard journey that requires hard work and loads of support. It will be 5 years in June and I am still taking one step, one day at a time. Nothing can be said...just know so many here understand and can help you in your grief. Sending stength and peace.

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Re: HI im new and i need you to help me
« Reply #12 on: February 09, 2009, 08:49:13 PM »
((((((Aaron's Mom)))))))

I'm so sorry you've lost your precious Aaron. This is a different life we live without our children and without support, I don't know how anyone can survive it.

Please share your darling Aaron with us when you feel up to it and know we will understand any and all of your feelings.

Sending you a big cyber hug and My Love,
Terry

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« Reply #13 on: February 10, 2009, 07:01:52 PM »
I am so sorry for your loss. I, too, lost my son in an auto accident and know only too well the utter hopelessness that you feel. I am glad that you have found this site. Share more of your son with us here...
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« Reply #14 on: February 11, 2009, 08:01:26 PM »
I am so sorry for the pain you are going through.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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