Hi Adele,
I remember you so well - your baby's anniversary and mine are not so far apart.
So sorry for all the sorrows burdened on top of the worst possible. Hope you found some comfort in these traditions so different from what we planned when we gave birth to these beloved children.
Barb mom of Jim 4/2/99 forever 21, Tom 2/16/07 forever 31, and two daughters still here with me