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Chy Scott's Mom

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Scott would have been 21 years old
« on: December 14, 2006, 06:59:02 AM »
Oh my gosh, how this hurts.  I ache for all he will never see, say or do or be.  My sweet baby would have loved 21, it would have meant so much to him, all that "now I'm an adult" stuff, in charge of himself and his life and he was preparing nicely for that too.  I can only watch a fake movie in my mind of the "would have's", and "could have's" and certainly the "should have's".

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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #1 on: December 14, 2006, 07:08:56 AM »
Thinking of you and understanding how much it hurts.

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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #2 on: December 14, 2006, 07:10:28 AM »
Chy the would of, could of, should ofs, are so hard when we think of all that our children have missed by leaving so soon in their early lives.

Chad had enjoyed being 21 for 9 months, he loved being a "man" lol as I think of those words he spoke that he was now a man. He was yet it everything stopped all his dreams ended at 21 and sitting here thinking geez in another 10 years he could not only be a father but grandfather....wow it sure does feel unfair and does hurt that it all ended for our kids.

Thinking of you and Scott
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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #3 on: December 14, 2006, 07:11:10 AM »
Chy

Sending birthday wishes to Scott up in Heaven!  It is so wrong that Scott did not get to experience 21 and all that it could be, should be... so much life he should be living.. I'm so so sorry.. our Chris should have turned  20 at the beginning of the month and I felt the same way.. how is this possible that he is not here!?!!

Holding you close in my heart.. luv and hugs,
Karen
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Cheryl - Brett's Mom

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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #4 on: December 14, 2006, 08:43:00 AM »
I know that pain!! My son would have turned 20 last month. After 17 months I still find myself thinking several times a day 'is this real'  'is this a bad dream' is he really gone' 'is he really NEVER walking in the door again'...... and then I think 'NO>>>THIS IS TOO HORRIBLE TO BE TRUE....I CAN'T STILL BE LIVING IF HE ISN'T'... then I cry....again!!!! You'd think that after 17 months that I know that it isn't just a dream.

I hate it that our boys aren't here to begin this new phase of life and that we can't be a part of them becoming 'men'. I know the feeling of missing them so much that it feels like it is overwhelming.  So many people tell me that we were lucky that we had Brett for 18 years...and we were VERY lucky to have had him, but I still want him here NOW..I miss his antics..I miss his smiles..I want to hug him so bad... does that make me ungrateful because I want him here by my side now???

Sorry, my reply was meant for you Chy....just to let you know that I know how you feel and them I went off on an tangent!!

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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #5 on: December 14, 2006, 08:49:29 AM »
I am so sorry for the hurt you and all of us feel.  Happy Heavenly Birthday to Scott.

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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #6 on: December 14, 2006, 10:00:12 AM »
Chy, I am so sorry & wish it was different. Happy Heavenly Birthday, sweet Scott!

Much love,

Leslie
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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #7 on: December 14, 2006, 10:19:01 AM »
Happy 21st to you Scott xxx

Sending love to you and you family on this (particularly) difficult day x
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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #8 on: December 14, 2006, 10:47:50 AM »
Happy 21st Scott.  I know you are busy hanging out with all the guys celebrating today but stop in and let your Mom know you are close.  She loves you so much.

Chy -  Wish I had some wise words for you but all I can say is that you are in my thoughts today.

Sending Peace...
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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #9 on: December 14, 2006, 11:13:24 AM »
Scott sending you love on your 21st birthday. I'm so sorry he isn't here, it's not right.
Love
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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #10 on: December 14, 2006, 03:44:21 PM »
Thinking of you and sending gentle thoughts.i am so sorry for all of us here,missing our beautiful children.Much love to you,Louise[keren's mom]
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Lori, Alex's Mom

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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #11 on: December 14, 2006, 03:58:42 PM »
Happy Birthday Scott!

Much love and caring to your family.

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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #12 on: December 14, 2006, 04:04:28 PM »
Happy Heavenly Birthday, Scott! Please let your Mom know you are near!

Chy - Scott is now the same age as Josh would be and I am sure that our boys are all together.  I hope that Scott sends you a sign to let you know that he is always right there.

Love,
Dena, Josh's Mom
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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #13 on: December 14, 2006, 04:19:52 PM »
Happy 21st, Scott!  Send your sweet Mom a sign.

(((Chy)))  Wishing you moments of peace today and wishing it were all different.  Thinking of you and Scott.

Love and hugs,
Katie
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Re: Scott would have been 21 years old
« Reply #14 on: December 14, 2006, 05:58:35 PM »
happy birthday scott. send your mom some hugs  LaVonne
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