Thanks Rebecca for responding...I went back to preferences and I think the reply was enabled, I checked another box, and now I think there is a reply button below my post.
I am not on top of this yet...
I understand so well, same with Kyle, when our kis are out on their own we just get use to not hearing from them in a few days, just like my parents did, I guess...but then we call them and check of them like any good parent would, without being to noisey...lol A very thin line in that area, don't you think. But I am the same way, at first after his death, I pretended he is away in his apartment in Orlando, or back home in Arkansas, seeing his friends and just to busy to call me...but it's all soaking in more and more everyday, they say our body and mind does this right after a loved ones death to help us cope with their loss to survive. The day I am able to get back to Arkansas to visit his grave for the first time since we buried him can be reality in true form. I haven't ben able to put flowers on his grave, but have ben told that many of his friends continue to go there and keep his favorite orange flowers in the vase. One friend' s mother asked her daughter that instead of the array of orange flowers, why not put some Christmas flowers out, her response was that Kyle wouldn't like Poinsettas, or any type of red flowers, he would want Orange, so that is what she did. Very sweet and endearing. I am here for you too Rebecca, it's just so tough for all of us...and my heart is heavy today. I am trully sorry you had a bad day yesterday, but crying is part of healing I suppose, and it does zap our energy at the time. Take Care! Love, Val