Hi Zengirl:
I, like you, chose to see a medium. My sister went with me for moral support and not only did she validate alot of things for me but she also had some things to say to my sister. She was able to answer some of the questions I had about my sons death and she also knew things she couldn't possibly know about my family. I don't know if you ever have closure when losing a loved one but it certainly did comfort me.
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your mom and child. We will be reunited with them someday until then one day, one moment, one breathe at a time!!
Take care, hugs and love
Donna (Jason's mom)