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14 months today without Marc
« on: February 09, 2008, 03:48:59 PM »
Well it is the 10th of Feb here now.  Another month has gone by and it is to the day that my Marc has been gone for 14 months.  I sit here at 8.00am crying at my computer whilst I look at all of his photo's, also thinking about the family of the other vehicle (a mother and her 2 kids).  It wasn't her fault, it was Marc's, but I am sure she is living with it as well.  For some reason (for reasons that we will never know of) Marc took my car that night.  He didnt have his licence yet, but was going for it in a few weeks.  He was a good driver but over confident in his abilities.  Unforfortuntely those abilities were not good enough when he found himself in a situation that he couldn't control.  A few seconds either way, he would of ended up in the scrub.  Probably would of totalled my car but I would rather that alternative than the one we are living now.  That split second made the difference.
I know that I will be thinking of her as well when I take some flowers down to his memorial rock (at the site of the accident) today.
Love you always my Marc.

Marc at his year 11 ball. (just before we moved to Darwin)

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Re: 14 months today without Marc
« Reply #1 on: February 09, 2008, 05:45:47 PM »
Judy -Marc's Mum,
I'm thinking about you and Marc,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
 minute to minute, hour to hour, take small steps, one day at a time.
 
I'm sorry Judy. It's all so difficult to try to process and it's really confusing.
 
Wishing this was so very different for all of us. 

sending hugs,

Wadesmom

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Re: 14 months today without Marc
« Reply #2 on: February 09, 2008, 08:35:58 PM »
Judy

I know how hard it is and missing your Marc.  I wish none of us had to be here at all.

Deep breaths and baby steps is all we can do.  Sending you strength and hugs.

Jeanne
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P.S.  Marc is such a handsome  young man.  This picture is just beautiful.  You also had posted another pic of Marc that was so nice and I'm sorry I meant to post to you when I saw it.  He is just so handsome.

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Re: 14 months today without Marc
« Reply #3 on: February 10, 2008, 05:47:12 AM »
Judy, I am thinking of you today.

I can remember trying to relive every moment prior to Chad's death in his accident, if he wouldn't have hit that tree he maybe here today, just a few inches to the right this all may have been different for the Chad's. A moment,  only a second, it all ended and for so many years I asked why???

Marc is very handsome, I love this photo, thanks for sharing.

Forever wishing it was different
Love
Deb


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Re: 14 months today without Marc
« Reply #4 on: February 10, 2008, 06:13:53 AM »
Judy, I am so very sorry! I don't know what else to say right now.
I am thinking of you. I just wish I could give you a big hug and say that it's ok. :)

Love,
Cathy

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Re: 14 months today without Marc
« Reply #5 on: February 10, 2008, 02:12:41 PM »
That's a wonderful photo of your handsome Marc.  He looks very happy with himself.

Fourteen months is such a long time to be missing him, but I'm sure it seems like yesterday when you hold him in your loving memories. 

A few weeks after Keith died, my husband and I drove up to the site where he went over the cliff.  Although the dirt road follows the cliff edge for miles, there were trees and bush, rocks, etc. that would have stopped someone from going over the drop off.  Except where Keith went over. 

Hoping you get through today okay.

Wendy, Keith's mom

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Re: 14 months today without Marc
« Reply #6 on: February 10, 2008, 02:16:53 PM »
Thinking of you and your Marc, such great pictures.

Hugs,
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Re: 14 months today without Marc
« Reply #7 on: February 13, 2008, 08:17:39 AM »
Marc is such a handsome kid. I am so sorry for your loss.
Lots of "what ifs" to go around here.
I can remember marking every monthly anniversary, to the hour, of Tim's death.
It took years before I passed any month without mourning the 11th day.
Anyhow hope you are holding up OK- one day at a time.
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Re: 14 months today without Marc
« Reply #8 on: February 13, 2008, 05:12:20 PM »
Know I am thinking of you during this difficult week. Sending strength and peace.

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Re: 14 months today without Marc
« Reply #9 on: February 14, 2008, 09:04:18 AM »
Judy - what a wonderful picture of Marc - so so handsome! Im so sorry it is impossibly hard - sometimes there just are not enough words..

know that you and Marc are in my heart..

luv and hugs, Karen
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Re: 14 months today without Marc
« Reply #10 on: February 15, 2008, 05:46:31 PM »
JUDY,
   i'm sorry for the loss of your son. my niece candi(23) was killed friday may 13,2005 by a 18 yr. old guy driving recklessly.
all 3 in his vehichle survived.
candi has a son(josh-7 at the time). he had went home with his grandparents or he'd been in the truck with her. she was on her way to meet her husband for a cook-out.

sending you hug's,
martha

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