I lost my 15 year old son on1-8-03,, his name was Zack,ive been comming here since maybe march of that year,,ive had a struggle with pain killers for 16years,one month b4 I lost him,i had quit,well of course ive been back on them for 2years now, my son was shot,bya "friend" who happened to be 37years old,I started to drink hard-very hard,,i tried to turn into traffic and kill myself,,i dont know how,but i always mad it back into my lane,i had made plans to get my dads gun and go hold the people hostagge that were there when it happened,,i also thought about doing to the daughter what was done to my son,,so they would know my pain,,luckly i didnt do any of those,god and my son got me thru that mess,now i have a BEAUTIFUL 22month daughter,named emily,she has mine and my sons smile and his blue eyes and shes my angel,my sunshine,,,my only sunshine,,,yep,,im still on the pills,,just took 2 when istarted to read everyones pain that is so much like mine,,almost 4years hes been gone,,seems like yesterday and a 100years ago at the same time..oo and i smoke like a chimmney and always will...........kelly