It's hard to remember this when you're battered down into that black hole of child grief - that the moment passes. I think that's what has sustained me - staying in the moment, getting through a day, an hour, a minute at a time, knowing that the worst will pass and i'll have a few ordinary moments. I am so grateful to have all of you to turn to for support. Thank you for your kind words.
Barb, mom to Jim (4/2/99), Tom (2/16/07), Deb and Coll