i just joined this site today.... kinda looks like a nice place to chat. i am 21 and lost my older sister 7 months ago. i've been numb for those past 7 months but it just kinda hit me the past 2 weeks that she's gone. her birthday was 2 weeks ago so maybe thats why. but we were only 17 months apart. she died in an early morning car accident... worst phone call to wake up to ever. i've recently been suffering from insomnia... i get about 2 hours of sleep a night. i just feel kinda lost and whatnot. i dont feel like anyone understands this at all. well, none of my friends i mean, because none of them have gone thru it. she had a fiancee, but i can't bring myself to talk to him at all, or her best friend. every time i talk to them it hurts, i feel guilty for not calling them on special occasions but it kills me to hear their voice. ahhhh, i dont think this has a real point to it, just posting it because maybe someone feels as lost as me, or maybe someone did and knows how not to be lost. who knows