Hi,
I'm so sorry for your loss and the complications that are going with it. I lost my brother to suicide one year ago today. He his his depression from all of us and his friends and co-workers. The shock was horrible. I never thought that I could be where I am in my grieving today, a year ago. Then all seemed so horrible and the loss so great. Today, I have more good days and can think about Steve without crying. I know there will still be bad days, but it is true that with time, things do get better.
Guilt and anger and so much a part of normal grief, and maybe more so when the death is due to suicide. When you are ready, I suggest grief counseling. I have yet to attend a Survivors of Suicide support group, but would still like to do that. I did see a private counselor and that helped me to know that what I was feeling was normal.
Just take this one day at a time. Give yourself time to grieve.
TH