Rebecca,
I'm going through something similar except that mine is an unusual mole (?) under my arm. It's grown quite a bit in the last two months and tomorrow, I'll try once again to make an appointment.
4 years ago today, Cory tried a suicide attempt. Prior to that day, a doctor (a walk-in clinic doctor) gave him Paxil. Cory went to get something for anxiety and the doctor gives him Paxil! Needless to say, it totally screwed up his chemical balance. The doctor never made an appointment for a follow up appt. With Cory's separation from his wife, this was the start of a spiral that took Cory's life.
Last night, I pulled out the container that I have with all the things from the day Cory left me and his memorial. Very painful but I needed to do it. I just wanted to feel and smell the last items of Cory's life. This must be a time in my life that I'm losing it. Deep inside of me, I want to scream, break something, do anything to try to let this pain out.
I will still keep it together because it's what's expected of me. Still taking one minute, one hour and one day at a time.
You'll be in my thoughts. I know how hard it is to go forward without remembering the past.
Jo