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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: ZYLEN
« on: April 17, 2012, 08:21:30 AM »
Thank you, Terry :)

I get anxious just thinking about that date.

I gave Rowan scratches for you, which he thoroughly enjoyed, and a little kiss on his head, too :) He is certainly great support and deserves all of those he can get :)

Love and hugs to you,

Thinking of you and Lou on this day

Love and hugs to you



Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: anniversary
« on: April 05, 2012, 02:07:24 PM »

Spouse, Partner Loss / Halfpint?
« on: March 29, 2012, 02:20:45 PM »
Hello Halfpint,

Hope you see this and know that MyLou (Lisa) and I miss chatting with you and are wondering how you have been.

Hope everything is ok. Please let us know how you are.

Love and hugs to you,


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: It was 16 months on 3/22
« on: March 25, 2012, 08:34:27 AM »
Hi Rayinsc,

So sorry for your loss (((((((((Rayinsc)))))))

Thank you so much for clarifying this. I was really worried about this but also wanted to give the benefit of the doubt. The people on here have made such a huge difference, and I would find it so hard to leave for this or any issue like it.

Thank you, Tom, for creating such a wonderful site :)

Love and hugs to you both,
((((((((Tom))))))))) ((((((((((((Terry))))))))))))

"In the future, we will be preparing a page for Health Care Professionals and Researchers, explaining how to make the best use of this board" Really???

I hadn't realized that this was going on. If I had known I would not have been so open, and wish I could delete some of my more intimate posts.

I really don't like the thought that my misery and that of the others on here is going to be used by someone and also by groups of people who find it interesting to them and plan on using it for their own gain.

I hope I misunderstood that part of the post, and if not then I really hope that Tom seriously reconsiders this move.

I greatly appreciate all the great friends I have made on here, and for all the support I have been given. What I don't appreciate is opening this up for the sake of 'research'.

Love and hugs to all,

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Was just wondering
« on: March 11, 2012, 04:43:16 PM »

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Was just wondering
« on: March 10, 2012, 10:26:56 PM »

Hi Andy,

You are not alone feeling the way you do. I could have written much of what you did myself.

You will find much more empathy than sympathy here. There are those here going through the same, and feeling very much the way you do.

As far as getting over it, I don't think that happens. I think it's more of a learning to live with it. And it's obvious that those who told you to get over it never had to deal with this.

I lost my wife of 16 years last June. She was my everything. We were a team, for all the good and bad.  All we really did was work and spend time with each other. We had both said the last 16 years was so fast, and we were more than ready for another 16.

I would wish you a happy birthday, but I just had mine as well and there really was very little happy about it, so I know how you feel. She was the one through all those years that would make it a special day for me, both through baking and gift giving. There was none of that this year.

I've been up all night working, but  I just had to stay up to let you know that you are not alone in this, and that there are others here who truly understand.

Take care and a hug for you ((((((Andy))))))

Spouse, Partner Loss / Left in tears
« on: March 04, 2012, 06:56:28 AM »

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: WHEN WILL IT STOP
« on: February 22, 2012, 09:52:52 AM »

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: I need to write !!!
« on: February 19, 2012, 02:35:38 PM »
Hi Sping2012,

So sorry for your loss.

That was beautiful about the balloons and hugging his jacket. I did that once with my wife's bathrobe and just broke down. Haven't tried it since.


Hi Joe,

So sorry for your loss. I lost my wife of 16 years last June 15th due to cancer treatment.

There are a lot of great people here who truly understand and are such a great help through this worst of times.

Take care,

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: New to this dark tear raining road
« on: February 18, 2012, 07:10:29 PM »
Hi Donna,

So sorry for your loss. My wife had passed 8 months ago due to the treatment for cancer.

There are a lot of great people here that are more than willing to help and listen.


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