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Spouse, Partner Loss / Happy Birthday Lisa :)
« on: April 06, 2013, 07:09:07 AM »
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LISA!!!  :occasion13:

Hope your day is as wonderful as you are :)

Love and hugs to you,
((((((((((((((Lisa))))))))))))) <3


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: lost my wife she was only 23
« on: January 01, 2013, 12:50:41 PM »

So sorry for your loss and so sorry you have to be here, but you have found a great group of people here who truly do understand what you are going through.

I lost my soul-mate June 15 2011 immediately after what was supposed to be a routine operation. Like you, she was my friend, soul-mate, wife, everything, and like you I will never be able to describe the feeling of missing her and this feeling of why bother.

I couldn't eat right and sleep right for weeks, and I actually lost more than 20 pounds at the beginning. I even called in to work being so tired from so little sleep. Luckily my boss was very understanding and supportive.

This will probably be the hardest thing you will ever do. I know it is for me.

The best advice I've received here is to take it one moment, day at a time. Just do what you can with what you have and know, and don't think you have to do it all right now.

Friends and family mean well with their advice, but no one will really understand unless they go through this too. I was one of those who didn't know what to say, and I still don't, and I really didn't understand it at all until it happened to me.


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Lost and Confused
« on: September 14, 2012, 01:43:50 PM »
Hi Chris,

Sorry for your loss and sorry for anyone that has to be here.

Lost and confused is a great way to put it.

I lost my soulmate June 2011 to cancer treatment, too. She passed immediately following what was supposed to be a normal procedure that turned out with not so normal results.

This is such a great site with so many willing to help.

Those first few months were terrible, not knowing what to do or what could be done.

Take care,

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: I'm a newbie
« on: September 14, 2012, 01:37:21 PM »

Sorry for your loss and sorry you have to be here.

You have found a great group of people who truly understand and are more than willing to help anyone here, anytime.

This is such hard and terrible path for all.

Take care,


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Friends and Family Are Angels Too
« on: August 21, 2012, 03:21:46 AM »
(((((((((((Lisa))))))))))) ♥♥♥

You are so very welcome :)

Hope you are feeling better. I'm just glad that I could do something for you when you are feeling so sick.

And huge hugs back to Angie and Jean ((((((((Angie)))))))) ((((((((Jean)))))))

Get well soon :)
Take care,

Spouse, Partner Loss / Missing her is killing me
« on: July 24, 2012, 02:40:21 PM »

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: I wish I could do this
« on: July 08, 2012, 05:19:39 PM »

All of you just made me smile too, so thank you for that :)

If only we could all do this.

Love and hugs to all,

Spouse, Partner Loss / I wish I could do this
« on: July 06, 2012, 05:02:18 PM »
I Resign
I am hereby officially tendering my resignation as an adult.
 I have decided I would like to accept the responsibilities
 of an 8-year-old again.
 I want to go to McDonaldís and think that itís a four star restaurant.
 I want to sail sticks across a fresh mud puddle and make ripples with rocks.
 I want to think M&Ms are better than money because
 you can eat them.
 I want to lie under a big oak tree and run a lemonade stand with my friends on a hot summer day.
 I want to return to a time when life was simple.
 When all you knew were colors, multiplication tables, and nursery rhymes, but that didnít bother you, because you didnít know what you didnít know and you didnít care.
All you knew was to be happy because you were blissfully unaware of all the things that should make you worried or upset.
 I want to think the world is fair. That everyone is honest and good.
 I want to believe that anything is possible.
 I want to be oblivious to the complexities of life and be overly excited by the little things again.
 I want to live simple again.
 I donít want my day to consist of computer crashes, mountains of paperwork, depressing news, how to survive more days in the month than there is money in the bank, doctor bills, gossip,
 illness, and loss of loved ones.
I want to believe in the power of smiles, hugs, a kind
 word, truth, justice, peace, dreams, the imagination, mankind, and making angels in the snow.
SoÖhereís my checkbook and my car keys, my credit cards and all my responsibility.
I am officially resigning from adulthood. And if you want to discuss this further, youíll have to catch me first, ícause,
ďTag! Youíre it.Ē

With much love and gratitude for all you have done for me and everyone else here


Hoping you are experiencing less painful days as this week goes on,

Love and hugs,

Ok, I'll try one even though it's very early :)

Going to be very hard to top the chocolate bar :)

If grief was a fruit it would be a lemon.


Love the picture. Very beautiful.


How about this...If grief was a doll it would be Chucky

Spouse, Partner Loss / Trip to George Anderson, medium
« on: May 24, 2012, 10:14:40 AM »

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: I'm new here...
« on: May 17, 2012, 09:01:07 PM »
Hi Jean,

Sorry about your loss, and sorry you have to be here, but you have definitely found a great site full of supporting and understanding people.

No one is going to get the wrong idea, and there is never a reason to be sorry for rambling. We all do it, as it really seems to help sometimes.

Take care and a big hug for you,



Thank you, Terry :)

Love and hugs to you,

Mary's  Bday May 14,  1951
Angel date June 15, 2011
Anniversary Sept. 12, 1995

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: ((((All))))
« on: April 23, 2012, 04:54:02 PM »

Congratulations!!! :)

That's great news. You two make a great looking couple :)

Love and hugs,

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