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Messages - Zylen

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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: ((((( BGRx333 )))))
« on: November 24, 2013, 07:57:25 PM »
Thank you for your support, Terry :)

I wish it was that I had met someone new and that what I've been going through is that simple lol

What I feel I can say at this point is that I really don't know how I got into such a situation, and I'm not so sure anyone would really believe it. I know I would be like O_o if I heard someone else tell it.

Well, at least I can say that I have learned some very valuable, if not priceless, lessons from it.

(((((Terry))))) <3

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: ((((( BGRx333 )))))
« on: November 24, 2013, 03:45:34 PM »

I may be seeing a light approaching...just not sure yet if it's a light of heaven or more hellish fire.

Let's hope it's the light from Heaven. :icon_flower:


Well, all the planning and hope has fallen through, and it's only made worse due to a supposed friend's latest act of cruelty and using me, so it's definitely no heaven in the near future for me.

Thank you for the cheering on though.

((((((Terry)))))) <3

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Hugs to all for the coming holiday
« on: November 23, 2013, 02:26:30 PM »

Sibling Loss / Re: Thinking of our Pam
« on: November 23, 2013, 12:07:26 PM »
((((((((Pam))))))) <3

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Lou's Angel Date (((Lisa)))
« on: November 22, 2013, 10:24:20 AM »
Sending hugs and hoping special memories of your Lou filled your heart.


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Well, I finally did it
« on: November 04, 2013, 12:05:53 PM »
Thank you all for the hugs :-)

I'm now boxing up books and clothing to take to a nearby women's shelter.
I hope they find those useful.

One step/day at a time :-p

((((((((All))))))) <3

Spouse, Partner Loss / Well, I finally did it
« on: October 21, 2013, 08:54:03 AM »
Last night I went through Mary's winter coats, bagged 10 of them up for Goodwill, which is where I took them today.

I'm sure someone can use them this winter, and they could probably use so much more.

She was such a generous loving soul that I am sure she is happy with this :)

A first step, and there is so much more I can bring to them. One day at a time :)

Love and hugs to all
(((((((ALL))))))))) <3


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: ((((( BGRx333 )))))
« on: October 15, 2013, 09:29:31 AM »
I just did the same with Mary's recipes, looking for one that was one of my favorites.

Of course there were a bunch of holiday recipes in there, and that really hit very hard. She used to do so much baking then. I never did find it.

Those moments of 'clarity' are frightening and so 'final'. I hate those, as it makes me realize the tremendous loss and that this is it. Never again for anything that we used to do.

I may be seeing a light approaching...just not sure yet if it's a light of heaven or more hellish fire.

So yeah, I get it, and so sorry that you do too.


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Quiet over here
« on: October 13, 2013, 05:55:35 PM »
So tired of hurting. Not sure that I can or want to go through yet another holiday season.

Just.....exhausted. I think the lesson is How to break a soul, and if it is, then mine is shattered.


(((((Hugz)))))) <3

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Quiet over here
« on: October 07, 2013, 08:09:54 AM »

Sorry, I thought I posted in the Spouse/Partner Loss section.

Spouse, Partner Loss / Happy Birthday Browneyedgirl
« on: September 13, 2013, 07:08:34 PM »
Big Happy Birthday to Browneyedgirl :-)  :occasion13:

I hope you had a great day :-)

Sending much love and hugs your way

(((((((((Browneyedgirl)))))))) <3


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Maureen's Birthday (((Arthur)))
« on: September 02, 2013, 05:18:00 AM »

Those anniversary dates are so very hard, especially alone.

And even harder when certain truths are realized, and those moments of clarity set in.

No doubt about it that it's just absolute misery, but as BGRx333 says so well in his post, at least it's us and not them going through this.

One day at a time, my friend, and we can do this.


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: another beginner
« on: September 01, 2013, 03:29:55 PM »
Nevertheless I have trouble seeing what the point of it all is. I feel like she was 60% of the thing called us. I don't see much value in the remaining 40%.

I feel like this many days. The brighter side is those days come to pass, not to stay.

Sometimes the value could just be little, like being the cause of another's laugh or smile, looking forward to something with a friend, or even something greater like saving a life so that they go on helping others.

It's so hard, especially in the early days, to see any value in anything, but it does happen little by little, and in my opinion with it the hope and feeling that the loved one that's passed is watching over us, and is proud that we go on and honor their memories.

And say whatever you want, whenever you want here...there is such great support here...we get it, and no one is going to judge you for it.

I hope this helps,


Main / Re: Wishing you all a wonderful weekend!
« on: September 01, 2013, 08:31:27 AM »
Hope you have a wonderful weekend, too  :-)

Love and hugs back atcha from Rowan and I  :love4:


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Maureen's Birthday (((Arthur)))
« on: August 30, 2013, 06:03:19 AM »

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