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Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: WAITING IN THE LIGHT
« on: February 15, 2015, 04:43:01 AM »
((( Terry ))) - You are welcome, I thought it was beautiful too  :engel2:

((( Janka ))) - You are welcome, yes it made me cry too  :tearyeyed:

((( Shelby ))) - I've been going through some medical problems. Yes, I did have a sign from Lou on Feb 8th. It was 7 1/2 yrs when we got engaged on that date. I was a mess that day. I will write my sign at the end of the post.  I don't think we ever get enough signs but sometimes we miss their signs.  You have to know Rikki is with you and see's how you have grown since his passing.  A lot of people don't realize when we talk to them that is a sign.  We feel them around us and we start to talk to them.  That is a SIGN. There isn't a day that goes by I don't talk to Lou.  I can't imagine never talking to him. 

OK here is the sign I received: I belong on pinterst not sure if you ever heard of it. I love it.

I went to the quotes this what I came across.

Nothing can
Dim the light
Which shines from within,
Author name: Maya Angelou

Her last name Angelou - I looked at the last name and said there is my sign. Lou is an Angel .. Angelou

Sending peace, love , light and faith to everyone



Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: 3 years,3 months and 3 days.
« on: February 15, 2015, 04:26:58 AM »
((((( JANKA )))))

Thinking of you  :angel11: I know it's hard.  I wonder myself , do we ever stop counting the days they went to Heaven. I know the answer it's NO

Jan is always with you ... :engel2:



Spouse, Partner Loss / WAITING IN THE LIGHT
« on: February 14, 2015, 04:01:43 AM »
Waiting in the Light

When you wake up tomorrow
And grief takes your breath away
Know I watch over you
And walk with  you each day

Though, unseen, I stay close by
We're never far apart
The love we share gives testament
To all that's in your heart

I see the way you struggle now
To hold your head up high
I'm proud of you because I know
How very hard you try

I wish I could hold you close
And ease the pain you feel
I want so much to talk to you
And promise that you'll heal

One day you will see me again
Once more within your sight
I'll be right here to walk you in
I'm waiting in the light


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Is there anybody else here?
« on: February 12, 2015, 04:44:34 PM »
((((( JANKA )))))

I am here ....



Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: For Lisa.
« on: February 03, 2015, 03:06:43 AM »
(((((( JANKA )))))

Thank you , so beautiful .......... :angel11:



Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: We first met here - now we're getting married!
« on: February 02, 2015, 04:40:04 PM »
Diane and Robbie

Congratulations  :love4:




I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Robyn. 

I/We get it.  I loss my soulmate too we all did. 

I feel your pain.  It's all still raw.  Please scream, yell, cry whatever you have to do.  It hurts I know. I never felt pain like this until I loss my Lou.

Some people journal, see grief groups , counseling.  You need to find what works for you.

Always come here to post.  We are family, welcome I am sorry you had to join us but yet I am glad you found us.

There is always someone here to post back to you. 

Grief takes time everyone is different.  I am at 4 years. I never thought I would be where I am at today.  The first few years weren't good.  I do have my bad days and cry,  It's different now it's not every sec, min , hour of the day.

Please get rest if you can't sleep , drink and try to eat or snack. Take one sec,min, hour , day at a time. 



Hugs to you !!

Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: For Lisa.
« on: January 06, 2015, 03:19:21 AM »

Aww, thank you so much for the beautiful song ... :engel2:

Always and Hugs ,


Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Happy New Year Song.
« on: January 04, 2015, 01:45:02 PM »
(((((((((( JANKA ))))))))))))))

Thank you , that was beautiful.




Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Poem
« on: January 04, 2015, 01:39:16 PM »

To be honest with you , you made me feel uncomfortable by saying Thanks a lot you made me cry !!

I didn't know how to take it . You seemed angry at me.  I just wanted to leave it alone. I am not a person that don't speak my mind but I don't like arguing so I left it be.



Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Poem
« on: December 30, 2014, 03:04:41 AM »

I am glad you love it  :love9: .... ever word is how we feel ..........

Hugs my friend....


Spouse, Partner Loss / Poem
« on: December 21, 2014, 05:26:03 PM »
I came across this Poem and wanted to share.  I didn't write this one.

I know we all feel the same ...

I thought of you today,
but that is nothing new.

I thought about you yesterday
and the days before that too.

I think of you in silence,
I often speak your name.

All I have are memories and
your picture in a frame.

Your memory is a keepsake
from which I'll never part.

God has you in His arms,
I have you in my heart.



Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Christmas greeting.
« on: December 21, 2014, 03:34:32 AM »
(((((( JANKA ))))))

Thank you for thinking of us ..... I love Kenny G and this song ........



Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: I miss you all!
« on: December 20, 2014, 04:29:45 AM »
((((( JANKA )))))

I am always here sweetie.



Spouse, Partner Loss / Re: Poem XXII.
« on: December 20, 2014, 04:07:47 AM »
(((((((((( JANKA )))))))))))

All your poems are beautiful. Every word you use you express the love for your Jan. :love9:

I know at times it's hard to go on.  It's OK if we fall but we have to get back up and try again. :engel2:

I am always here for you my friend.



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